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You're Still the One

Dear Reader,

I grew up surrounded by comments and ideals of finding ‘the one.’ You have heard it, too. Commentaries such as, “Don’t worry, the right one will come along” or “Keep searching for Mr./Mrs. Right.” It is commonplace in the world of dating and getting married, especially among Latter-day Saints. The truth is that I have been on that search before. There are many women that could be ‘the one’ for me. There have been a couple girls that I thought were that ‘one.’
               
When you find that person, you are so blissfully happy and you wonder how you ever lived without them.

That one person comes along and they seem perfect in every way.

They complete you.

You balance each other out so well and you start wondering about how much time you want to spend together.

Some say that there is no ‘one’ person for you.

The one is the person you choose to be with forever.
               
Then it hit me. ‘The one’ has been in front me the entire time. ‘The one’ is me.


The best advice someone can receive about dating or having a marriage is to be the person you want to marry. It hit me today that ‘the one’ needs to be found in front of my nose, not in the apartment down the street. Become ‘the one’ of yourself.  
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